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Dear GC, He Doesn’t Want to Use a Condom & He Doesn’t Want to Undertake an STD Test Too…

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Dear GC Readers,

I have a big dilemma and I say big because I love this man who is that perfect gentleman every woman will want to settle with.

We have been dating for almost 5 months and he has shown how much he cares about me, my feeling and where he wants our relationship to go.

I am 27 years old, a graduate of University of Ghana who just started working. In fact, it was through his connections that I landed this job after 2 years of searching.

I like taking my relationships slow and I’ve done the same with this man. Currently, I do not have any fear or reason not go get intimate with him but the problem is, he says he does not like condoms, which means he intends not to use one with me.

During one of our discussions, I told him I recent took an STD test so if he wants to make love without a protection and he insist on that, he should do the same. Even if he wants, I can do it together with him. But he says, does he look like someone who carries any STD and that my suggestion is insulting.

I am not sure if a person who carries any STD is supposed to have some particular look. The thing is, I am worried about my sexual health than anything and this is also a man I do not want to left go. I love him and he is a good man.

I’ve been thinking for days now as has turn cold towards me. What should I do?

 

From: Esther P/ Ghana

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6 thoughts on “Dear GC, He Doesn’t Want to Use a Condom & He Doesn’t Want to Undertake an STD Test Too…”

  1. Girlfriend run for your life. You just met this man and you don’t know what he has been up to in the past and what he is up to now but he wants to get into your panties raw? who does that these days anyway. It is not about STDs only what about pregnancy? I guess you are ready to be a mother of a baby with a man you met under 6 months or abortion is on the table for?

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  2. Dear remember he is not the only man on earth for you. Of course most Ghanaian men will feel insulted if you asked them for an STD test. And they will all ask you if they look like someone who carries STD.
    Even if he decides to use condom theres still the need to know his status concerning STDs b’cos after some weeks of using the condom there’s 99% chance of doing it without the condom, thinking you’ve known him for a long time already.

    It’s very important he gets tested. Make him understand the reasons why the test needs to be done. And if he says no, just RUN without looking back. Who knows, you might meet the right gentleman just around the corner

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  3. ahh look at that mumu asking you whether he looks like someone with an std…well guess what…you can never tell by anybodys appearance on whether they have an std…leave him alone….plenty fishes in the sea…good job on waiting with the sex

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  4. In addition to the all comments given —- please DO NOT ever think you owe him because he connected you to the right people to start your career. You’ve already prepared yourself for the opportunity (i.e. education). If he starts saying how ungrateful you are for calling things off, just say THANKS and walk away. Please you will get a man who shares your views, however there is no cure for HIV/AIDS or most STIs. Please!!!!!!!!!!

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  5. This girl must be a joker, so fact that he hooked u up with the job means you should do according to his will? Girl is clearly written the guy is guilty and is hiding something from you. Call of that relationship and focus on your career, am sure a prominent person will soon come your way if you let go of him. Be wise because men of today are not worth sacrificing for.

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