Dear Chris-Vincent,
I cannot swear on my life that I have not slept with someone’s husband or boyfriend before—and I am yet to find a woman who can honestly swear by both the new and old gods that she has not done this either…
Over the last few weeks, GhanaCelebrities.Com has been taken over by certain hypocrites who seem to claim that, it was sinful, immoral or somewhat unacceptable that Janet Bandu who died with Castro in a Jet Ski accident was the musician’s mistress.
Interestingly, most of these people who expressed the above views were women and I call them hypocrites because in life, no where has it been written that it is unlawful to sleep with an adult who consents to sleep with you, either married or not.
For some people, sleeping or having an affair with a married man is a SIN and against the Bible, forgetting that the Bible does not condemn polygamy.
I know one of the Ten Commandments say, “thou shall not commit adultery”. And for one to commit adultery, the person must be married so if I am not married, and the man is married but wants to commit adultery, what has that got to do with me? He may have sinned but I have done nothing wrong or sinful.
Connecting the above to Janet Bandu’s case (that is indeed if she was Castro’s mistress), Castro was the sinful person and not her.
Again, Apostle Micah Addai, presiding pastor of Association of 7th Day Pentecostal Church at Adeababa in the Ashanti Region has come out to say that, there is nothing wrong with polygamy and that it is not a sin to be polygamous.
The above means that, if a man has a girlfriend and he decides he wants more girlfriends and therefore comes in for me, it is not a sin in the sight of God. So all those women arguing exclusivity are just some jealous individuals who want something for themselves alone—and not that, there is any sin or curse stationed for a girl who decides to share their men’s joy and wealth.
According to Apostle Addai who spoke with authority from the Bible, Abraham though married to Sarah took his maid servant-Hagar as his second wife but the good lord never opposed Abraham.
He also added that “Solomon married 1000 wives but the punishment he got from God, was not as a result of the 1000 wives he married, but rather because he failed to obey God’s instruction to marry only women from Jerusalem” The Daily Democrat reports.
So if it is not a sin for a man to marry more than 1 woman, how is it a sin for a man to have more than 1 girlfriend? Women that he has not married?
You know what the sins are; wearing those fake hair, placing tattoos on your body, the lies and gossip, telling your man you have had 2 boyfriends when you have had 10 (lies) and the unending jealousy plus greed which includes, not wanting to share your man and his wealth when he wants to share his body and his money with others. Greed is the biggest sin.
From: Linda Abena E./ Ghana
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First of all, these people that send Chris such letters should stop milking the apparent death of Castro and Janet cos it is getting ridiculous. Just because u have had relationships with a married man does not mean that all females do that, and I for one has NEVER and will NEVER have anything to do with a married man or someone who has a girlfriend or fiance. Also, just because a certain man of God says polygamy is not a sin does not mean Castro being married and supposedly has a girlfriend or side chick is a polygamist. Polygamy is the marriage of many spouses, that is a man or woman who is married to 2 or more people. Castro was not a polygamist, if Janet was indeed his girlfriend then what he did was commit adultery and not polygamy. U should get your facts rights before u sit behind a computer and write things that u don’t even have an understanding of. And by the way, polygamy is not a sin in many cultures, Christians are the ones that do not practice polygamy, but other religions and cultures accept it. Castro was just a cheater who needed to get his s.h.i.t together, but he was not a polygamist. And I am not defending him, I am just correcting your mistake. Let the guy and lady rest in peace and stop the write-ups!!!
Thank you the most sensible comment I’ve ever read on here..
Thank you very much, If a man of God has said something and you want to write an epistle about it, just write and leave Castro and Janet’s name out. Sincerely, majority of Ghanaians are just insensitive. Nobody appeared from anywhere, we all came from a family so we should put that into consideration. Jeeez, allow these two to be ah…
That was my point exactly. Leave the deceased alone. If u want to write about polygamy, what has it got to do with Castro and Janet?? Some people just write things w/o knowing what they are talking abt!!!
hahahahaha., hilarious, i agree with him on one thing though, most ghanaian women are the most hypocritical/judgmental people ever, they act so sanctimoniously but they are the ones with the most skeletons in their closets.
polygamy is not a sin in other cultures but Christians do not practice or accept it so if some guy (who calls himself a man of God) says polygamy is not a sin then i don’t know what he means by that….and Linda, next time u wanna write something like this get ur facts right like She-Meyor advised
Looks like she was related to Janet bandu or maybe her friend. GIrls in such game has no guilts at all.
i couldnt agree with u more…
I love what Linda just wrote. Some of us women come here to insult others for the exact things we do behind closed doors. If a man who is married does not respect his marriage enough not to cheat, why should it become the problem of other beautiful girls he is going after? Aside that, cheating is not a sin same was not saying hello to someone when you meet him or her is not a sin. People who are in relationships should respect their relationships and stay faithful. If one decides to go and have fun outside, that got nothing to do with sin or the other person he is having fun with. What about the married people or those in open relationships? is that sin too?
You are a fool to type all this shit in a public place like this. Why am i surprised? look at your nasty profile picture you are displaying. Am sure prostitutes like you are the ones who doesn’t mind hooking with married men right? You have failed, because you don’t have any sense of humor in life. Men are generalized to be weak and nothing can change that. When is boldly written on the wall the man is married must a prostitute like you agree to date that man even if he decides to come your way? Girl who raised you? Take an acid and pour it on your mama for being a bad leader in your life.
Wow and what makes you the wisest? Girl you are one villager of a girl who can’t learn to show some decency huh? Seriously is she not entitled to her opinion?
Why is Janet Badu’s name including including Chris? Your just an instigator. The poor girl may not even be alive. And hypocrites like you r still dragging her name with stupidness and ignorance.
THIS HAS GOT TO BE A JOKE. Anywho, dis goes out to GC commenters who r hypocrites
In short, both( castro and janet) of them were adulterers but we should let the sleep dog be..and the pastor should be remove from his pastorial duties cus he is obviously feeding his congregation with garbage…
cos their’s are out, everybody wants to crusify them. its a sin but we still do it. i’v been to this peace holiday resort and aqua safari countless number of times with a very prominent and public figure married man. I feel bad though but hey its about how u make urself happy. i know karma is there but i thank God i hv a faithful fiance who loves me to the max.