I am a proud African woman and my pride does not just spring from the fact that I have a big booty and an enviable chest—capable of letting a lot of men turn and pull their necks like mad Giraffes anytime I walk past them on the street.
My pride as an African woman comes from the home upbringing I received, the level of decency I attach to my existence and majorly, the influence of the African culture in my life, a real golden touch on my personality.
Smartly, I’ve adopted a lot from the West and I mean those that are of great benefits to my survival and empowerment as a woman. I am loud, bold and open minded—many will drop these as African traits but I have borrowed them and have perfectly weaved them into being an African woman.
I wouldn’t hesitate kicking any man who tries to take me for granted in the balls and some may argue that this is no way African. But I tell such people that, I equally respect the men who treat me with care and understand the position of a woman in society.
Being an African woman living in a global village does not mean you should juxtapose the African and Western cultures and pick the one which appeals most to you. It means you should hold on tight to your identity and steal from the other cultures some of the missing but immensely beneficial traits.
Social media has been buzzing for the last few days after GhanaCelebrities.Com broke the Rapper-Itz Tiffany’s leaked seks tapes story—and out of curiosity and the desire to feed our human gossip instincts we’ve all found ways to obtain the tapes.
I had about 10 people sending the videos to me on Whatsapp last night. Seks tapes are being propagated and shared as if they are the words of God.
For many, the tapes are disgusting and did not expect Tiffany Owusu to have such a messy coochie—as if anyone can point me to a coochie that is not of that form or shape. All coochies will come up nasty if you take a camera close to them like that. If you don’t know, ask your mother…
For me, my immediate worry was the little stick that was doing the playing but that is not my subject for today so I will just let it pass. Some of these girls are really wasting their time and energy, chopping down pencils and yet they keep talking ‘plenty’.
My last boyfriend was a real anaconda, capable of sending electric shocks into my spinal code—and even with him, I dropped his black butt instantly when he forgot that I am an African woman who takes pride in respect and whispered an unacceptable sentence into my ears. The dude wanted a 3some…
No doubt the man who recorded the tapes with Itz Tiffany and leaked them is a monster—but to be frank, there is a monster in every person. The truth is, it takes a lot of push for the monster in some people to come out and for others, anything trivial gets them screaming.
Having watched the 3 videos with my ‘korokoro eyes’, I do not feel pity for Itz Tiffany in any way—and I will state my reasons in 6 quick points. I don’t care if you do not agree with me simply because you ride on the same dense wavelength with her but at least, you’ve read me.
1. Itz Tiffany is a Loser
For many stupid women like Itz Tiffany, love is blind—but the truth is, people are blind and dim, not love. Only a real loser ends up with such a douche bag with uncountable criminal convictions and a murder allegation hovering over his head…
This guy did not just wake up one day and decide to become this way. It’s in him and love cannot be the reason why when Itz Tiffany failed to see the signs—pure stupidity or greed for money did.
2. Tiffany Owusu Herself is a Disgrace
Forget the seks tape because a lot of decent African women find themselves laughing to the cameras n*ked, believing the video will stay private forever. Therefore we cannot label Tiffany as a total disgrace for appearing in a seks video, obviously recorded in private and meant to stay in private.
Nevertheless, not a lot of African women will drag their butts on the floor in such a disgraceful manner as she did—intending to curse a guy over a BBM message and stop him from cheating in the future. Who the f**k does that?
The whole n*kid butt dragging episode says one thing about Tiffany Owusu—which is; she is a bush girl and has no class or any bit of African left in her.
3. First Was a Mistake, a Repeat Makes You a Fool
Itz Tiffany is a chicken head and I pray when she enters the court room to sue her supposed ex-husband and baby father over the leaks, a judge tells her this in the face.
In less than two years, you’ve had nasty n*ked photos of you followed by videos leaked—and you want us to believe you are normal?
Reasonably, we cannot blame her for the leaks but it’s the excuses, especially the BS stories she comes up with after the leaks that makes her more of a big halfwit.
4. And the Man Has Custody Over Her Child
Can you even believe Tiffany’s son is in the custody of this guy who goes in and out of prison like the way I jump in and out of troto; all because I have not found any son of a b*tch called ‘mugu’ to buy me a car like lucky Christabel Ekeh?
Even if marrying this man was a mistake and having a baby with him too was a mistake; leaving your child with him for even a minute cannot be classified as a mistake—except if you are Lindsay Lohan and you are drunk on drugs.
5. She is Not Even Ashamed
A common attribute of every true African woman is the high pride we attach to our nakedness—and the moment our private business becomes public, we will go into a shameful hibernation. That is when you know a woman is innocent and genuinely feels sorry for the unforeseeable mess.
But has Tiffany showed this? No…
Considering the way she spoke about the first photo leaks and how she has started with this one (her tweet and interviews), she is one hell of a character who has no shame in her books. As such, she is capable of doing whatever and accepts whatever—at least that is what she says.
6. Obviously She Likes Such Men
I am convinced beyond reasonable doubt that Tiffany has some sort of fetish for bad guys. I mean those with criminal records and those who will not hesitate to abuse a woman. She claims the man has been abusing her and does not support her career—that is why she has decided to let him go. And that this is what has started the seks tape witch-hunt.
So the guy’s robbery and gun activities were not enough to tell this thick head Tiffany that, an African woman does not stay close to such a man? She only became aware and decided to run away when the abuse started coming her way.
Tiffany’s child with this guy is alleged to be around 6 -8 years old, and per the court documents GhanaCelebrities.Com published, this guy was as back as 2000 sentenced to prison for 6 years, for robbery.
So Tiffany knew his criminal history and perhaps played little or major role in some of his activities—and yet decided to have a baby with him and proceeded to marry him.
She was even cited in the guy’s murder extradition case court papers as a defence witness, defending the guy.
If you think the guy is a douche bag, then Tiffany is a crack-head.
To me, the issue is not about Tiffany recording a seks tape but what she did in the tape, the person she recorded the tape with and more importantly, her conduct after the leaks.
Tiffany, next time you decide to record such a tape, make sure the man is endowed so that in secrecy, we may enjoy from your torment—and share in your pain in the open.
You are just reaping what you sowed.