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Doctors Said I Cannot Have A Baby, Should Tell My New Man? | I Believe God Can Make It Happen Though…

Worried Black woman
Worried Black woman

Dear GC Readers,

I am in a big problem and for about a month now since my new man who has treated me like a Queen decided to discuss having baby with, I have not been myself. I have been thinking a lot and he is even worried as to what I have been thinking about.

I was nearly ran over by a car last Friday after work because my mind was far away. I have had bad experience with a number of men. Some having taken my money and for two others, they just used me to acquire their legal stays.

This man I met about 9 months ago is totally difference; he treats me like I am the most precious thing in the world. He does not have his legal stay yet but he has told me his lawyers have been working on that for him for some years now.

Last month, my handsome man talked to me about getting married and proceeding to have a baby. I am super excited about the first part (the marriage) but there is a big problem when it comes to the second.

I had an operation when I was in my 20s and I was told I cannot have a baby. It’s not that my womb has been taken off, it is intact but a little complicated. I am a Christian and I believe in what our Lord Jesus Christ can do so I believe one day if indeed God wants me to have a baby, it will happen.

My problem is; should I tell my man about what doctors told me some years ago before the marriage or just keep praying and not tell him as I believe a miracle will happen.

He really loves kids and I am scared things will change if I mention what doctors said to me some years ago.

Please what should I do?

From: Matilda A / USA

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5 thoughts on “Doctors Said I Cannot Have A Baby, Should Tell My New Man? | I Believe God Can Make It Happen Though…”

  1. TELL A GHANAIAN MAN OR AN AFRICAN MAN THIS AND YOUR MARRIAGE IR RELATIONSHIP WILL BE RUINED FOREVER!!!! EVEN IF HE HAS NO INTENTIONS TO LEAVE YOU, HE WILL BE INFLUENCED BY HIS PEERS TO DUMP YOU

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  2. This is a difficult one because if you don’t say it and he finds out later that you knew. You are screwed and if you tell him now too forget that marriage. But maybe he won’t mind except that you said he loves kids. hmmmm

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  3. Lol as I’ve heard it several times…oyibo man don’t care whether you have kids with him or not…they believe there are too many kids out there who needs a home so they will be happy to adopt…just few of my fellow african men will want to adopt…even if they are impotent there will still be wahala as there’s always nothing wrong with them…left alone agree to get help….my sister start showing interest in oyibo oh (naija accent)….or tell him:..if he truly loves you he will stay…or if he wants his nkrataa he will stay….some crazy situation here oh but follow your heart

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  4. If you really love him like the way he loves you, please open up and tell him the truth. Don’t let him found out about it year’s later.

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  5. Oh my sis!…hmmmm!….if u believe in miracles then pray over it. But my main concern is, if you tell him now he might call the marriage off, and if you don’t tell him sooner rather than later and eventually finds out from a doctor. he might decide to stay or go…….. just make sure he doesn’t get his indefinite stay and run off…………

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