A ‘creepy’ female friend currently living in Marbella tagged me in the below video last night on facebook and it really sinks deep—so I have decided to share it with my commentary even though I am on a writing hiatus.
I am writing this from a plane and unlike the pilot, I don’t know if the flight is heading East or West—and the in-flight wifi is pretty a pain in the bum too.
From the video and accompanying comments, it’s obvious women are dead complicated, made worst by hormonal jumps, mood swings and their inability to effectively communicate when it’s crucial.
Even from the title of the video, ‘When a Woman Says I Am Fine, Never Believe Her’—don’t you think it’s inherently unfair that women are in a constant state of irony, expecting men to figure out their blood flow of serious sarcasm?
It’s deeply disappointing that somehow, somewhat, men have come to accept that women are distinctive human beings whose ways mirror the peculiar strings that run through their heads—yet women can’t seem to carefully figure out and accept that men are also from a different planet.
Increasingly, most men have come to accept that women are synonymous to unexpected hormonal jumps, unstable moods and confusing presentation of the state of affair at any point in time. And men make overwhelming adjustments to accommodate these things.
Obviously, when something is wrong, they say it’s alright and expect you to figure out. And when something is right, they still say it’s all right. If this is not the definition of a walking contradiction; then what else is? Even when they put on the table what is wrong, it’s never what is truly wrong—it’s just a bait meant for you to magically read their minds and know what’s the problem.
Though men are wired to employ logic, reason and pragmatism when it comes to things of high importance, the video and the comments confirm that women have little value for such attributes and ride prominently on emotions and assumptions—sometimes unfairly influenced by Instagram, Youtube, friends and family’s displaced ‘advice’.
Of course men have emotions too but at most point in time, it’s the wheel of reason that pushes the journey—most women don’t care to figure out this or they just think it’s only them who matter.
How many women oft seek to find out from their men their own hovering stress, fears, problems and directional uncertainties? The lawn tennis seems to only play well when all the attention is focused on one side of the court.
This inherent difference therefore means that, the man-woman clash is inevitable and the gender gap is suicidal. It wouldn’t take a degree to perfectly postulate that for these two species of contradicting reasoning to be able to hold any lasting relationship or interaction, the mind must be set for the fight. It must be such that, until one is completely stabbed dead on the battlefield of contradicting ideas, the many falls, tears and anger should not be enough to end the cause. For the mere fact, even in abstract, these things can’t be avoided because women are from Venus and men are Mars.
“God” was perhaps looking to exterminate the human race when he positioned men and women on the same planet and astonishingly bounded them with love…
Just in front of me on this flight, some older couple have been arguing for over 30 minutes and interestingly, the source of the verbal punch is ‘CRISPS’.
It seems the woman is allergic to it and yet she ordered one—which the man reasonably doesn’t get why she did that. Here, the problem is that, the man is applying reason while the woman ordered the crips despite her allergy not out of reason but perhaps, per her taste bud command. I wish I can just pass this video to the man to watch…
Anyway, I am on a journey to wherever—so just check out the video below plus the accompanying comments.
When a woman says " im fine " …. Never believe it . it's always a cry for help w/ Simone Shepherd
Posted by King Keraun on Wednesday, 22 July 2015