There is nothing intensely infuriating in the world of dating and relationship than been with someone who seem heads over heels in love with you today then maybe not— perhaps not.
Nothing kills the soul more than being with people who are indecisive and inconsistent. Today they want to be lawyers, tomorrow they think they couldn’t be anything better than a doctor and just when you are settled on that, they tell you music is the ideal and their passion.
People like that spell chaos and doom from near, they are agents of Satan himself interceding for “antoa” to come and make your life a living hell. My question is why stay with a guy who takes you to the moon today and bring you down to ends that would compete with slums like Nima and Chorkor (let’s pretend you never saw chorkor and Nima). I just cannot think far on this one, if it is the sex we have worthier, bigger, better and more appreciable joysticks roaming the streets of Accra waiting for an available sweet pot to serve the relishing delicacy to.
Perhaps it is the looks, he is fine eh? Well I don’t blame you, no one wants to associate herself with a grotesquely looking creature who bears a name of a man, we all want the six pacs, basketball height,pink lips kind of guy who would treat us like pure water sachet because he feels he has the looks and the ladies is at his beck and call.
Well I would rather soak gari with salt and painstakingly eat with pride to fill my bloating stomach than to be served with GHANAIAN JOLLOF and salad at gunpoint.
When a guy really likes you, it’s usually pretty obvious. So too when a guy doesn’t like you. The uncertainty usually runs rampant if a guy seems to fall somewhere in between. He disappears for days at a time and then texts you the sweetest message you’ve ever received. He says he really cares about you, but doesn’t really act like it. And while you’re on this topsy-turvy ride, all you want to know is does this guy like me or not?! You see, a guy can be somewhat interested, but not into it. Instead of seeing it for what it is, women make up excuses and justifications to rationalise the bad behaviour away. There are no mixed messages. Either he’s into you or he’s not.
Here are five tell-tale signs that he’s not: