Dear GC Readers,
I am a 28-year-old Ghanaian living in Accra and I have been married for 3 years now with one child.
I dated my husband for 6 months before getting married but I knew him for about 5 years as a friend before we got into a relationship.
During our times as boyfriend and girlfriend, the sex was good and we did a lot of things. He has always known that the only way I get fully satisfied in bed is through licking and not penetration.
He had no problem going down on me during our dating era and even the first few months of our marriage.
But about 2 and half years now, things have completely changed–as he claims going down on a woman in sinful, the reason why he thinks his business is not doing well any longer.
At first, I thought it was not a big deal but I am getting frustrated as I have not really climaxed since then. He always gets to the peak anytime we make love and I am left hanging in there.
Though he says going down on me is a sin, he loves it when I give him a BJ. But when I ask him for a return, he always says he is never going to do that again which means this will be all I will get for the rest of my life with him.
It’s becoming extremely unbearable and I have prayed about it for months without any change.
Now, I am confused as to what to do; please can anyone offer a decent advice to a dear sister who’s stuck in a marriage without any sexual excitement?
From T. A/Ghana

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