It is untypical for women to have extra marital affairs so one who does it has logical reasons behind it. Do not however misconstrue my stance to be a justification of infidelity.
One woman whose name has been given as Susan has been married for seven years with two kids yet still keeps the company of her boyfriend.
Deducing from her narration, her husband is not always available to rock her under the sheets when due hence the need for a side boo’s presence when such need becomes handy.
She posted this confession:
“My love for my husband can’t be compared to the love I give my boyfriend. The affair with my boyfriend is just a continuation of what we started when we were kids. I can just say we are fond of each other.
I like him as a friend and he supports me emotionally when my husband is detached.
If we have financial problems, my man is never in the mood. He gets excited only when things are going smoothly. When problems arise, he blocks me out, denies me sex and fails to support me emotionally.
He is present physically but absent emotionally. At such times, I turn to my boyfriend, who is also married, for emotional support. We meet, have sex, talk and discuss issues before I go back home.
We can sometimes meet and not have sex. We just talk, and share stories. He gives me a shoulder to cry on.
If it was strictly about sex, then I wouldn’t be with him, because his performance is like my husband’s. I would have otherwise looked for someone who is really great in bed.”