Part Two – Acting Like a Side Chick

1 Give your partner space. – Don’t always be the first to text or seek them out. The person likely doesn’t want to have more than one main significant other. They already have one, and your role is to be something different. You should be a person they come to for a good time. Give your partner breathing room when you are not together.

2 Keep things interesting. – When he texts you, keep the conversation interesting. A side chick’s main responsibility is to keep things fun and exciting. Giving him short answers and acting uninterested will make him wish he were doing something else, or even just hanging out with his main partner. Tell them funny stories. Ask how they are feeling. Surprise them with plan for something to do.

3 Don’t ask questions. – Consider your time together as the only time that your partner is your business. You shouldn’t ask questions like “Where were you?” or “Why didn’t you call me?” and “Why are you always so busy?” if you expect to keep the relationship going. These are not your concerns.

4 Don’t expect to spend holidays with your partner. – If the person cares enough, they might celebrate these events with you the day before or after, but for the most part, don’t expect anything like a gift or acknowledgement. These days are usually saved and reserved for the main partner. It may be safe to text him to wish them a happy New Year/Christmas/birthday, but a phone call should not be made.

Final part on the next page.