A lot of Ghanaian single and unmarried women have become so pathetic—and they take every comment in relation to marriage as an attack on them or to mean they are less of human beings.
It’s shocking: because most of these same people claim marriage is nothing, it’s not worth it or they are happy being single. If these are true, then why be bothered about any comment in relation to marriage or be offended by such?
I am happy being married! Therefore, if someone passes a comment about singles’ lifestyle or say being single makes a man worthy, I wouldn’t be offended or cry blood on the back of long essays.
But let the same be said about being married, and a bunch of women, mostly all unmarried and single, that claim to be comfortable and happy in their situations, will get mad.
If you are comfortable in your skin, proud of your situation or deeply happy with it, nothing said about it will easily offend you.
It does not matter the misconception, a woman happy in her shoes wouldn’t care much about what others think about those shoes.
But it’s obvious: a lot of these women are pretending to be happy in their single or unmarried state. They so much yearn to get out of that and have become extra sensitive to any comment that suggests that their position is less worthy, compared to being married.
It’s really scary. Don’t people have no right to opinions anymore, when it comes to marriage? Any little thing, and the same bunch, especially the unmarried celebrities set themselves on fire, ready to attack and burn.
Look, like I said before, KOD is a mess but the argument that men, a lot of men, even those known around choose women that are unknown around when it comes to marriage is true!
You can kill your self over it. We can look at what’s happening or has happened around us.
It does not mean the women who are not known around are angels. It just means men have a lot of ego and they wouldn’t want everyone knowing how dirty the women they settle down within are or were.
If you give me Afia Schwar and a certain Miss Owusua, all with same being around history and scandals, I will choose the certain Miss Owusua and every clever man will do the same.
Which sensible man will go and marry a woman who has “dirty” herself openly around—been around?
And where are you people getting the argument that the opposite of a popular woman or one that has been around is a shrink, muted, non-achieving or non hardworking woman from? Ah!
These people keep saying marriage is not a big deal but they always make a big deal out of it! Therefore, it seems it’s a big deal, even to them. They are just lacking it and they are upset about it.
Football is not a big deal to me. No matter the noise people make about it, I am not bothered and I don’t watch it. I don’t write about it either. That’s when something is not of a big deal to you.
Look at all those upset and tell me what they have in common!
Monfa sor hor!