S*x is a needless taboo subject in Ghana which has to be demystified and made into an everyday topic like everything else.
Aside from eating and breathing there’s perhaps no physiological human need which is satisfied more than the one for s*x, yet we like to pretend it’s something not to be talked about, but rather shoved into a dark cupboard and never touched, because even talking about it would make you ‘dirty’.
Being willing to openly talk about s*x somehow gets conflated to having a lot of s*x and therefore to escape judgement, many people prefer not to talk about it at all and thus are left to wallow in ignorance about many aspects of ‘chopping down’.
This admittedly is more common with the older generation than the younger, social media generation of today and yet actress Pascaline Edwards, who you might count amongst the former, is refreshingly liberal about the topic of s*x.
She appeared on GhOne’s ‘Duvet’ program Friday and she had a lot to say about s*x which made a lot of sense.
Edwards first admitted that she met her current boyfriend after a hot one night stand, something many ‘prudish’ Ghanaian ladies might frown at.
Edwards also had some words of advice to ladies, revealing that they have to be interesting in bed, ‘bad’ if necessary – and that trying to be a ‘good’ girl in the bedroom would only lead to a boring s*x life and inevitably, being dumped.
“You know, most Ghanaian women are timid in bed. Majority are just boring although they can do magic but for fear that they’ll be seen as bad in the eyes of their men,” she said.
“They behave timid[ly] when they’re supposed to rock their guys.”
The actress added that another way to help spice up the bedroom is to tell your guy exactly which spots you want fondled to get you off.
There is no absolutely no benefit to being timid in the bedroom!