The slay queen of today is interested in one thing and one thing only, and that is money. They are quite content to depend on a man for their every need, even for the most basic ones which any self-respecting lady should think about getting for herself.
These self-loathing golddiggers are all about trading the ‘tonga’ for cash and if a man cannot provide what they need they simply move on to the next one without pause.
That mindset is becoming just a little too prevalent amongst ‘ladies of today’ and actress Joselyn Dumas has spoken out against it, calling for women to become more self-reliant and stop turning to men for everything.
In a post on social media, the actress said ladies should find a way to take care of themselves and not think they need to run to a man for everything.
According to the actress, men are not ‘goldmines’ for ladies to think they can always go to them for ‘gold.’
Check out her post below…
“Dear sisters, if you have a man who loves you and cares about you with the little he has, appreciate it and be content with it.
Stop getting into relationships because you have a lot of demands and wants and you want your man to take care of them all.
You should stop making your man a goldmine or consider him as your father that he has to take care of everything of all his Daughter’s Needs. Your man also has a life to live and his own demands to fulfill.
In addition to that, also stop getting into relationships with high expectations. High expectations will kill you and you will get disappointed for nothing.
If you are with someone and they are unable to provide everything you want yet you adore them, then find a job and cater for yourself.
If you can’t find a job or you are handicapped then walk out of the relationship instead of cheating and find someone capable or an organization for disabled people to support you. Otherwise cease getting into relationships and marriages for wrong reasons.
Money can’t buy love and happiness. If it did then most rich people wouldn’t have been single, they wouldn’t have been crying for love and they wouldn’t have been divorcing every now and then. Money just sustains life but it can’t complete everything! Be Wise”