Losing a mother is painful, a close family member is not any better, losing a loved one to death is actually heartbreaking but what can also be soul-wrenching is losing someone you love not to death but to love. Some breakups can take the life and glimmer of hope in your life all at once.
Sometimes it eats up so much into you that, you let go of the pain and move on. In extreme cases, you are left with none other option than to live in the shadows of your last and lost love. You might move into another relationship yet make sure you make a point with your present to your ex. You want them to know you found better, you are better…
Counsellor, Frank Edem Adofoli says it is not necessary to prove a point to your ex that you are better off without them and we share in his thoughts.
“A broken heart is one of the most painful experiences lovers go through, but not everyone learns from such experiences, not everyone is built from the mistakes they made. People end up worse by trying to date to prove a point; I want my Ex to know my current is better than them.
“The truth is, what is good for you might not be good for another person, your preferred spouse could be someone’s preferred house help. This is because we all have our core mandate on this earth; we all have our unique field and destiny. Going for a life partner is to look for someone who will help you achieve what God has assigned you on earth.”