The Most Difficult Challenge We Dealt With Was Waiting 7 Years To Have A Baby- Adjetey Annan

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“WE LEARNT (THE HARD WAY) THAT CHALLENGES NEED NOT LEAVE PAINFUL MEMORIES. We have had many challenges over the years & many bad experiences…” are the words of veteran Ghallywood actor Adjetey Annan known popularly as Pusher as he continues to school us on all that he has (with his wife) been through to maintain their 12 years marriage.

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In his latest, he writes; “From dealing with the pressures of the industry I work into the tough demands of the industry she works in. But the most difficult thing we’ve dealt with was being unable to have a baby when we wanted to… we waited & waited till the 7th year! Societies expectations weighed us down & being known made it even harder for me..Over the years, we have fought, said regrettable things to each other & do things we wish we could take back.”

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LESSON 2: WE LEARNT (THE HARD WAY) THAT CHALLENGES NEED NOT LEAVE PAINFUL MEMORIES: We have had many challenges over the years & many bad experiences…from dealing with the pressures of the industry I work in to the tough demands of the industry she works in. But the most difficult thing we've dealt with was being unable to have a baby when we wanted to… we waited & waited till the 7th year! Societies expectations weighed us down & being known made it even harder for me..Over the years, we hav fought, said regrettable things to each other & done things we wish we could take back…Some times we've felt like giving up… the most important question during such times was, do we still want this? If yes then let's stick together & work at it! Sometimes reluctantly we agreed…how do u work on a common goal with someone who has hurt your feelings? We struggled to agree but somehow we made it through each hurdle, stronger & with more respect for each other… I believe in our case if our baby had come earlier, he would have been the focus & our individual weaknesses/flaws would not have been dealt with & would have grown deeper & probably exploded in a matter of time. So we stuck together, deconstructed & begun to build…day by day. When she was pregnant, we had one of the biggest fights we've ever had, one which could have spilt us up 4ever…. but somehow God took us thru & taught us lessons we'll never forget… So when we hav challenges now, we remember that nothing is impossible, once we can work at it together … #12lessonsin12years @elom_anang Photo: @beau___photography Costume (Elom): @pinksugagh Costume (Adjetey): @mmx_neno Hair & makeup: @kukispalour Director: @fiificoleman

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