Ideally, it is no wrong to look out for the man you are with— to have their back and help them to become a better version of themselves. The problem is when one becomes so concentrated on this said man that they forget they too, deserve to be worked on and catered for.
Actress and mother Angela Okorie has a message for all women in this situation. She says no woman should ever forget that they are the first priority. “I don’t like it when people say. You have to build a man from the ground
to the top, Building a man is not really the problem but forgetting ur self while building him is the problem, you must always understand that u also have some growth to do too
“Oh yes, u can Support him. You can Encourage him. But don’t you ever forget that u are the first priority
You have a lot of work to do on ur self. Focusing on him than your self is so wrong. Now Focus on the woman u planned to become. If you continue to focus on him alone.”