Actress and mother of one Tonto Dikeh is burnt on ‘tarnishing’ the image of her ex-husband. The actress is insistent on washing that linen although they have thoroughly done that months ago. She even said she was going to make money from this and considering writing a book on all that she has suffered and had to endure in the hands of Churchill.
Of course, we are not supposed to judge her, underrate her pain or pass comments because we have ultimately not walked in her shoes. Socialite and media personality Toke Makinwa says we should stop telling people how to heal from any form of hurt because we all grieve and heal differently.
“We are all tested differently, broken differently, our scars fade differently and we heal differently. Everyone should be allowed to grieve how they want, when they want and however long they want to. Stop giving expiry dates to the pain you did not endure. If you cannot be kind, say nothing.
“It’s ok to be quiet, try it sometime, you won’t die. You don’t have to understand everyone’s journey or life’s choices but it’s your duty to respect it. Life visits us all at the end of the day and while you play judge let’s hope when it’s your turn, you remain standing to handle it half as strong or as perfect as you try to claim be. #fridayinspiration #Judgenot#Bekind.”