For reasons best known to ladies guilty of this very act, they somewhat feel getting pregnant for a man would eventually force him to get married to them hence they ‘force’ pregnancies on them. Counsellor Adofoli says it is time women know nothing would make a man who is not ready to marry make that move.
In his latest post, he writes; “Common sense will tell you when you have sex with someone you are not married to and get pregnant, just by virtue of your pregnancy does NOT make you a married couple. The requirement for getting married is not pregnancy. For those who are still doing that, pregnancy is not a bride price and knocking ceremony is not a marriage ceremony or wedding.”
He continues: “If you stooped low to have sex with someone you are not married to, forgetting that unprotected sex leads to pregnancy, don’t mistake that for marriage. If any man is promising to get married to you in the future, wait for him to marry you before you open your legs for him. If you don’t know this you will end up getting pregnant for any man who comes your way as a lady, in the name of relationship, love and marriage.”