A couple of days ago, veteran Nollywood actor Richard Mofe-Damijo known popularly as RMD took to his IG page to advise the world on what they could do to be truly happy. Part of his post read; “Having been there and done that, I can tell you for free that weight loss, weight gain, butt enlargement, boob lift, marriage, buying/building your own house, having kids, wearing expensive clothes and shoes CANNOT make you truly happy.”
RMD emphasized that, for one to be truly happy, there is a need for them to accept themselves for who they are rather than resorting to butt enlargement, weight loss amongst other things that make them appear beautiful. His free dose of advise certainly did not sit well with singer Dencia. She says she would be utterly embarrassed if her dad whom RMD is 10 years older than sits on Instagram to talk about women and butt enlargements and boobs implants.
Dencia, however, agreed with at the latter part. She says all that plastic surgeries do little to make anyone happy, the very reason why people keep going back to it all the time after the first.
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Having been there and done that, I can tell you for free that weight loss, weight gain, butt enlargement, boob lift, marriage, buying/building your own house, having kids, wearing expensive clothes and shoes CANNOT make you truly happy. Mostly, the things we do to show others we are beautiful, made, tough and/or connected are things that magnify our insecurities. A man who is secure in himself has no urge to flaunt wealth, I’m yet to see Alh. Dangote post a picture of his “machines” or of him “chilling in his private jet”. A woman who is secure in her looks has no urge to go under the knife for enhancement, think Michelle Obama. True happiness comes from knowing who you are (self discovery) and loving yourself, “even though…” Anyone who can live without caring about the validation of others is the one who has found true happiness.✌🏽Outfit: @mudiafrica01 @mudiafrica #RMDSaysSo #SelfDiscovery #SelfValidation #SelfLove