There is an old Ghanaian adage which translates that one has to fear human beings much more than ghosts, and it’s a very true statement no matter how you look at things.
Many times in our lives, the things people close to us can do to us can be so painful to stomach.
That’s especially true of relationships. A lady has written to a relationship platform seeking advice on how to decide between her current boyfriend and a sugar daddy she’s now seeing.
The guy is a young guy trying to build his life alongside her but unknown to him, she had grabbed a sugar daddy and was chilling with him alongside.
The lady says her guy has now found out about her actions and has given her an ultimatum to leave the sugar daddy but keep all the gifts he bought for her due to her pu$$y power.
The lady says she’s now confused because she thinks the guy is planning revenge.
Just read her story and give us your thoughts…
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Good Day BOM fam..,I hope you’re all fine, i just turned 25 last month and i have been in a 3 years relationship with my boyfriend but last year i met a married man he instantly rented me a house furnitured it..got me a car and has been helping me financially, i ddnt leave my boyfriend because first i still love him so much and he is my lover and bestfriend, he is a perfect guy except financially so i planned to take as much as i can from the married man once i am financially okay and leave, now my boyfriend has found out and he is telling me to leave the married man if i want our relationship to survive and that I should leave him with everything he bought for me eg the car..furniture everything although their in my name and go live with him in him in his room that we will hustle and get our own money Together and live our life…Joro i love my boyfriend i do but first i am scared that he is doing it to punish me and maybe revenge later on am not sure 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏾♀️ what should i do now he says if i dont I should forget abt him and be with my married man, This married man too has fallen inlove he is a muslim and i am a Christian he has been talking about making me a second wife i wont even start explaining the level of jealousy he has because its a whole new story, these days he even divides everything he takes home he also gives me, if he does shopping we will do for both his wife and me, if he buys this he will buy twice and send one home and bring the other here..it has been scaring me I thought married men were the no strings type of relationship so if i leave i have to completely disappear block him everywhere and tell my siblings to do the same..So what should i do should i let go everything and move in with my boyfriend or should i leave my 3 years relationship with a man i love and focus on the married man… Ps: the married man is the one paying my siblings school fee and my parent’s rent..my boyfriend has also been giving me money from a little that he gets he gives me money to send home and to use I know i will get all types of insults i am ready but plz don’t forget to advise too Sent from my iPhone