‘Ladies who don’t love themselves simply do not earn anybody’s love.’ This is in a whole an advice from a Ghanaian Counsellor Charlotte.
According to her, women who go or have gone under the knife to enhance their looks feel insecure and cannot last in marriages.
‘I am surprised they don’t believe in themselves…I am surprised people cannot be proud of themselves. That is why they go for injections for breast and for back because they want to get shape. Any man that goes for a woman who has gone for injections for breast and back five years to come that thing will reduce,’ she said.
In an interview, Counsellor Charlotte noted to women that they must feel good about themselves, however they look they must not think to go through cosmetic surgeries because a man wants it.
And if such pressures start coming from a man, ladies must be able to tell them to go and look for the right person.
she said: ‘t is not you so if the man does not want you as you are you let him go. We should not add things to ourselves just because the man want it. I want you to bleach, I want you to be fair but when you saw me I wasn’t fair and now you want me to be fair…go and get fair ladies and leave me alone.’