Often times, we are way too quick to place judgments on people who want to leave their marriages, even without specifically knowing why they want to leave in the first place. That is how come we have lots of people in bad marriages, enduring a union which is meant to be enjoyed to the very latter on the back of the dread of what society would spill on them.
According to the mother of one who ended her three years marriage in 2013, she has had to endure the backlashes from people who had no idea what she had to go through whilst she was still married. She appealed to society to stop being judgemental when people want to walk away from their marriages because only they know what they are suffering or not.
”People have had their own perception of what led to my divorce. I have sat down for many years and have had to deal with the pain and insults from the public who had no clue what I went through as a person during that period and how it affected me.”
“The depression and all that happened. All I will say is you should never judge someone who wants to come out of a marriage. Because sometimes it is better to come out of it than to stay in it. For your own sanity and mental stability it is always good to take a bold decision for yourself. For your kids, if there are kids involved take a bold decision,” she told Citi News.