I Used To Be A Slay Queen And It Taught Me Lots Of Valuable Lessons- Hamamat Montia

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The 2006 Malaika Queen Hamamat Montia has touched on a bit of her life that no one probably knew about. According to her, she used to be a slay queen when she was in her twenties and lived the life that came with it but it also made her see life in a different tone.

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She shared this piece ahead of her birthday in a day’s time. The mother of three wrote; “I used to be a “slay queen” when I was much younger and clueless. Don’t get me wrong being a slay queen was so much fun I had many amazing experiences & learnt countless important lessons(and not all slay queens “sleep around “ some are just very smart at keeping men on the hunt for long ) but I soon realized it was all a trap and wasn’t the kind of life I wanted to live.”

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“How will you know if you don’t try ? Huh!… and after I became a beauty Queen at 18 , I really just wanted to chill . Name the country – I have been there.
Name the fashion – I wore it
Name the lifestyle – I have tried it
In fact my summer car choices was between a Ferrari & a Rolls Royce but this also taught me a valuable lesson.”

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Happy Wednesday #KingsandQueens : : : I used to be a “slay queen” when I was much younger and clueless. Don’t get me wrong being a slay queen was so much fun I had many amazing experiences & learnt countless important lessons(and not all slay queens “sleep around “ some are just very smart at keeping men on the hunt for long ) but I soon realized it was all a trap and wasn’t the kind of life I wanted to live . How will you know if you don’t try ? Huh!… and after I became a beauty Queen at 18 , I really just wanted to chill . : : Name the country – I have been there Name the fashion – I wore it Name the lifestyle – I have tried it In fact my summer car choices was between a Ferrari & a Rolls Royce but this also taught me a valuable lesson. : As a slay Queen – your most important goal is to catch a “big fish “ one that will take care of all your wants , needs & dreams . So I caught a big fish @20 but I soon learnt a life changing lesson . : Now I had this big fish and everyone was telling me to marry him and inherit it all – it was hard because I didn’t even know what love was and my instincts just won’t allow me to sleep at night. : I just couldn’t put myself in the box of “African girl marrying white man for money” (because that is what everyone thought at that time ) . I ended the relationship suddenly when I realized money alone wasn’t my goal in life but How dare you say no to a “big fish” after you went ring shopping together and met the parents and met the friends and met everyone . So we ended up in court because he wanted something in return- I mean how do you think big fish get Big ? Over 10years and there is still a picture of us on (my) wiki – ? : This phase in my life thought me many valuable lessons. Lessons that has helped transform my life for the better some of such lessons are – The power of #money The power of #intuition & The power of #white love : : I am not racist I am not sexist I am not what you think I am but rather a woman who knows who she is and is not afraid to try : : Comment #333 to continue 3 more days to my birthday : Click Hamamat.com to shop and win #moringaoil @hamamatafricanbeauty

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