Don’t just marry a pretty face, marry someone who has your back and believes in all your dreams and aspirations even if they don’t sound sane.
According to Counselor Adofoli, people should make it their priority to marry someone who has this inherent and should not rush into a marriage just by the physical look and presence.
He wrote; “If you are a young man planning to settle down, what are kind of qualities in a woman do you look out for? Many men will tell you, they want a woman who is God-fearing, intelligent, educated, beautiful, good at cooking and laying bed, a homemaker, etc. Hardly will you hear a man say he is looking for a woman who believes in him.”
:Many young pastors have made this mistake; he sees a beautiful young woman who sings very well in the church, he imagines how great it will be to have her as a wife, to be part of his team and ministry but never bothers to find out if the woman believes in him and his ministry. He rushes her to the alter only to realize things are not working.
“Men need helpers, wives; not just any helper or wife but a woman who motivates them to become better people, a woman who helps him to see the potentials and greatness that she sees in him,” he added.