11 Years Ago, All I Could Think Of Was My Annica- Okyeame Kwame Lists 11 Lessons For A Successful Marriage

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Okyeame Kwame and his wife Annica are still in a celebratory mood— the couple marked their 11th wedding anniversary yesterday and Kwame is giving us 11 lessons the rest of us can adopt to have a successful marriage too.

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The Rap Dacta shared a picture of himself and Annica loved up with a caption; 11 lessons in 11 years
“1 . Enjoy the period of attraction. I remember 11 years ago all I could think of was my Annica. We said so many nice things to each other. She used to say “Kwame U have the softest hands “and then one day I gently touched her neck and she said “ Aiii your hands are painful ! “ lovers can make u feel like a romance god until she hits your buttocks one day and says “we have become like brother and sister. To be attractive is crucial it makes you feel good but like beauty, it fades away.”

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11 lessons in 11 years 1 . Enjoy the period of attraction. I remember 11 years ago all I could think of was my Annica . We said so many nice things to each other . She used to say “kwame U have the softest hands “and then one day I gently touched her neck and she said “ Aiii your hands are painful ! “ lovers can make u feel like a romance god until she hits your buttocks one day and says “we have become like brother and sister . To be attractive is crucial it makes you feel good but like beauty it fades away. 2 . Enjoy the partnership. I remember when we were ready for marriage. Nothing could separate us. Not class , not family , not religion , not friends not personalities. In fact nothing could separate the bond. Then the children appeared and suddenly they became the priority. I lost my nights , lost my romantic trips and lost my privacy. The sudden intrusion of children stole my wife and turned her into a mother and a protector. The more mother she displayed the less of a wife I enjoyed until I learnt to appreciate the partnership of all four of Us. 3. Learn how to fight well. Anni and I barely fight . We have a few misunderstandings then a sorry is said and then our lives return to good old default. The few times we have fought in 11 years almost ruined the relationship. It wasn’t the cause that caused the problem. It was the nasty words that we spew when angry. The words of an angry soul kills love from within. As you tell her the brutal honesty that breaks her spirit. So now my advice is instead of “Your action was foolish” I say “your action was disingenuous” Instead of “You are wicked” I say “you are inconsiderate”. Fights are accepted in relationships but insults are not…… CONTINUE IN COMMENT SECTION. 👇🏾

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Source: GhanaCelebrities.Com


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