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3 Effective Ways to Put Back the Spark into Your Relationship this VALENTINE

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Love

Not everyone looks forward to celebrate the day of love and of lovers. And I am not talking about single or broken-hearted people. I am talking about those couples who have felt their relationships slipping out of their fingers and are only left with good-old-day memories of how their previous days were enjoyed with love and honeymoon tactics (plenty, plenty calling, love texting and pillow talks have now become squeezed-in ‘how are you’ texts).
These couples have simply eased their relationship into their normal routine and have forgotten of its specialness in their lives like we normally become unconscious of the act of breathing. One might think it is great to internalize a relationship but indeed it is a hellish thing to do.
A relationship has a special place and reason in your life and you must do all that you can to retain its brightness. Although some people find it a legitimate and assured source of sex, it is an opportunity to get to know someone with whom you can share your life, from whom you garner support and encouragement and, of course, with whom you can explore the feeling and world of love. These are just a few of the special reasons for cherishing and relishing your relationship.

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5 Ways to Better Help Your Man Understand You

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A good relationship is also built on mutual understanding which can be difficult to achieve. Some people believe that women are the most difficult subjects to understand. It maybe true but ladies can simply help their men to understand them in relationships by adopting these simple strategies: 1. Truly getting to know each other This … Read more

Matters of the Heart: Dear GC Readers, What Should This Brother Do?

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When it comes to matters of the heart, we cannot really discredit the feelings of others—and mostly, reason does not also come to play. Therefore, we cannot totally disregard the sufferings and actions of the young man who wrote to an Agony Auntie. In fact, the young man-Kwame has a big problem on his hands … Read more

Modern Day Relationship Paradox: Miss FAKE in Search for A Real Man

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From BrutallyUncensored.Com

While we do not consider fake and real to be good friends because they hold contradictory charges, when it comes to modern day relationships, a large number of women seem to think they can exchange their total ‘fakness’ for the real deal .

That’s such an unfair trade but they don’t care and they appear to believe they are entitled to this.

The modern woman prides herself in insane quest to achieve perfection and with this journey comes all sort of artificial enhancements—from fake eye lashes to fake butts, and these days, the fake boobs are also on increase.

It takes a lot of guts to go to the market with fake products—with the hope that someone would fairly love to trade his genuine product for yours. That’s the modern day relationship paradox.

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Akosua Abebrese Writes: The S*xual Libertarian, The Wh*re, the Liar & the Loose Woman | How Quick Must the S*x Happen After Meeting A New Man?

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I am back, still living in Ghana with no prospects of a better tomorrow. The Government can’t be bothered and the strongest opposition party has ended up fighting themselves—giving the Government of Dead Goats more time to sketch the next grand electoral robbery.

In such a country, you cannot really own much, except your body—to give and play with it on your terms. That is why I find it deeply worrying when others allow external conceptions and controls to take charge of the only autonomy they hold.

My headline question is as old as the various ontological questions but it seems the answers women give and what actually happen are never the same—at least with the exception of me.

I got into a loud conversation with my three female friends mid this week (Yes, we always discuss men and sex, do you expect us to kill ourselves with the Dumsor talk?) and the troubling question is my headline for this article. Interestingly and perhaps to score a decency point, all my friends said they would make a man wait for at least 3 months before opening their African pot for him.

Being my friends, I know they were each lying because Serwaa’s recent was the same night she met the guy—in the west, this would be termed a one night stand. She wanted a relationship but this guy was a key getaway driver so after dropping her at her climax destination, he never answered her calls and Whatsapp messages.

Considering Serwaa’s pitiful experience and her sense of having been violated as a woman, I do understand her eager to be exceptionally cautious the next time she meets a man. But that’s just what she says, would that really happen?

The Mary, mother of Jesus Christ in the middle of the triangle is always Tiwaa: she claims she does not want to have sex with a man before marriage—and her only sex was with her first boyfriend. Since then, she has had about 4 men who have passed through her life but they did not make it to the altar so the guess is, they never had her pot to eat from it.

However, this is the same Tiwaa who has an orgasm time table, aided by fingers and toys, she screams out 3 times a week all by herself—and ingeniously, she has various scientific articles to prove that masturbation is deeply healthy. She is the known liar in the group, so her words hardly get taken serious and yet, she is the one who parades herself as the staunch Christian.  She is always on ablaze with MOGPA.

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The New Era of Daddies with Sugar | It’s All About the Wallet…

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When I say daddies with sugar, I don’t mean fathers walking the streets of the world with sugar all over them. When I say daddies with sugar, I don’t mean daddies who work in a sugar factory.

When I say daddies with sugar, I am talking about those descendants of Adam who have decided to be ‘extravagantly sweet.’

At a point in my years of growing up, the influx of sugar daddies in the lives of vibrant ladies was like ‘key soap’…nine out of ten houses was likely to have a bar of that soap lying somewhere so was these sugar daddies.

And lucky was anyone whose sister was in any of this illicit affair because you become a constant beneficiary to some of all that sweetness. It was actually an interesting sight watching these grown up men who could easily pass for grandfathers make silly faces and crack all sorts of unfunny jokes just to make you laugh; jokes they wouldn’t smile to themselves.

But times have changed and change couldn’t exempt the whole sugar daddy bit. Before the mere mention of a sugar daddy created a vivid mental picture of what to expect so before one meets one in the flesh, one knew exactly what to expect.

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New Study Says You Can Tell From A Woman’s Face if She is A ‘CHEATER’ Or Not

 

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Men have a new tool to help them escape broken hearts and also to aid them spot those cheating women who come up all innocent—as though they were Virgin Mary.

The new research says, male participants were able to successfully identify which women had previously cheated on their partners in 59 per cent of cases by studying photos of 34 women.

And they did this, by just looking at their faces—meaning, the key to spotting the cheats is to pay good attention.

Led by Samantha Leivers, the research was carried out at the University of Western Australia—and as part of the study, the researchers asked a group of men to briefly look at photos of 34 women, but gave them no additional information about them.

The photos were shown in pairs – one of the women had cheated on a partner at least twice in the past, and one had always been faithful.

Bingo; the men were able to spot the cheaters in as many as  59 per cent of cases…

‘When asked to choose the more faithful of two women they performed significantly above chance,’ said the study, published in the journal Plos One.

According to MailOnline; “From an evolutionary perspective, it makes sense that men would have evolved the ability to spot a cheater because men can never be sure a child is genetically theirs, the researchers said.

That is, they could spend all their time and energy raising a child that is not theirs – and therefore would not pass on their genes – if their mate were to become pregnant by another man.”

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COUGARS IN PERSPECTIVE: What Do Older Women Want In Younger Men? + Nana Yaw’s Contradictory Ordeals

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I have a gripping tale of a boy who once got entangled with two older women at different times, and in his own words, “it wasn’t that funny.”

His story has inspired this article and by virtue of that I have tried to unravel the air of mystery that surrounds such relationships and have deeper understanding as to why men are attracted to older woman commonly referred to as cougars.

Is the love genuinely base on mutual love or it transcends that boundary?

In an earlier article I wrote entitled, “Does Age Matter in a Relationship?” I said among other things that age is just a number and that maturity and age are two different components altogether.

The stereotype has always been a constant reminder that men prefer younger partners. However over the last couple of years, backed by advancement and deliberate attempt to show equitability, women are rushing for younger me like never before. Modern women emphasis this power to demonstrate that they can have what they want at any time just like their male counterparts.

An age-gap romance is something conservative society struggle to come to terms with. The relationship at a point becomes fragile when there is avalanche of seers and ridicule from the public. The public disapproval of this kind of relationship has been reinforced because of the existing system that makes men insusceptible to some of its ironies.

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Lamentation of a Bitter Woman: ‘After All I Have Gone And Gone Through….He Left Me!’

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…And the most irritating comment I tend to hear frequently from women ‘…after all I have done and gone through for him…’ This statement is very pathetic, to say the least. Granted, if you’re ‘doing’ and your expected result is not forthcoming, why do you keep doing ‘it’?

Nobody forced you to do anything for him. And you absolutely didn’t/don’t have to. Not every relationship ends in marriage and some should not even end in marriage. Funny enough, these ladies forget that the man also ‘did’ something even if it was not in equal measure!

If you ask what the person has done and gone through, the funny ones out of the lot they have done:

‘All the sex’ – It’s mutual so far as you didn’t shout rape! Ladies sometimes ‘feel’ or ‘think’ they’re doing men a favour by having sex with them – as if they also don’t enjoy it. If it was not consensual, you can always report to the police you were raped. If you don’t want to ‘sleep’ with someone, don’t do it, it’s not an obligation. A spouse is obligated to not a girlfriend/fiancée (fiancée is not wife).

‘All my time’ – I don’t buy this idea of ladies always saying ‘he wasted my time’. Nobody wastes anybody’s time. If a lady does not know what to do with her time, someone will definitely waste it for her. I cleaned, I cook etc. But then, the man also used (wasted) his time?

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VIDEO: Who Told You It Was Wrong to Be Submissive to Your Man?

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Most women have become the men in their relationships—and have developed this misconception that, a 21st century relationship does not demand a submissive woman.

Of course no one is asking that a woman should allow her man to walk all over her, says the beautiful woman in the below video. But surely, women who want to keep their relationships need to understand the role submissiveness play.

In her 5 tips why most women are single or unable to keep a relationship, she mentions that, women who listen to their friends who are not in relationships or are in bad relationships end up ruining theirs.

She advises that, if you are a woman looking for relationship advice, it’s better to speak to one of your happily married friends—and not the bitter struggling ones.

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VIDEO: A Man Sets Up His Girlfriend’s Friend-Sharon Who Wanted to Sleep With Him & She is Busted N*ked in Ghana + Was He Right to Do This?

I am not going to post the video which I came cross this morning on social media on here for the obvious indecent nature and family friendly website reasons—but I will provide a link for those interested in watching it to do so at the end of this article.

After speaking to a few people and having read the comments under the video, I sort of gather this is what happened.

A certain Ghanaian man’s girlfriend has been suspecting him of cheating—and he has on the other hand been assuring the girlfriend that even though her own friends especially Sharon wants to sleep with him, he has never been interested in doing so.

So to prove that he is a faithful man and also to show that Sharon (some friends are really evil) is interested in sleeping with him, he gets into several days of conversations with Sharon and makes it known to her that he is interested in having an affair with her.

Not knowing that it was an absurd set up, Sharon agrees to go home with him for a good bang—where the man and his girlfriend plus her other female friends walk in to meet Sharon completed n*ked in bed, waiting for the s*x.

On a serious note, this invokes some sort of “moral maze” question; was it necessary and right that the man did this?

As a man, I have had my own fair share of friends of ex-girlfriend taking a hit one way or the other—but going as far as setting them up is completely insane, in fact, inherently evil. You wouldn’t just become a douche bag for doing this, you would also break friendships—I mean between your woman and her friends.

Of course there are several loose women out there, and the friends of your girlfriend are not immune from the loose pill. But I think a gentleman should just create a big gorge between himself and whichever loose friend of his girlfriend who may be interested in tasting what the girlfriend is enjoying…

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