A very insightful piece, the article looked at how many Ghanaian men who are well to do chase and f*ck women who are suffering in life but make no attempt to help them get out of their current predicaments — perhaps out of a deep seated insecurity that the lady might jilt them if her life took a real turn for the better.
Several of my random social media Ghanaian female friends are hustling and I am not talking about those squeezing themselves to enjoy Ubers which have become luxury even when they cannot afford it. I am talking about those looking for jobs without no sign of finding one, those whose rents are due and about to … Read more
Online dating
A 47 year old woman who paid good money to join a dating site angrily sued the site because they couldn’t get her a ‘suitable’ man to date.
Tereza Burki, a divorcee, joined the dating site Seven Thirty based in London and all she found was the site didn’t have enough men to enable her find a suitable suitor meeting her specifications.
Actress cum television presenter, Instagram and Snapchat sensation, Efia Odo seems not to be giving up on her relationship with Kweku Reveloe anytime soon as she eulogizes him in her new post.
Efia Odo after many warnings and advice from some close friends of her boyfriend, after she started flaunting him on social media of his true nature of being a fraudster (allegedly) and someone who would use her and dump her, seems not to pay attention to anyone.
Farting around your partner is a good indicator that your relationship is on a solid footing, according to a relationship expert.
According to Dr. Duah Danso of Valley View University Hospital, hiding your farts from your partner shows your relationship is not developed enough and thus is in serious trouble.
In these times when the Moeshas of this world are busy milking unscrupulous married men as a profession, it would come as a surprise for a woman to jilt her boyfriend with the excuse that he wants to buy everything for her and she can’t take it anymore. While even top female celebrities who can … Read more
A Ghanaian pastor in love with money has ‘sold’ a church member to a rich man for marriage for the sum of Ghc 30,000.
The pastor, who had immense influence over the choices of the female church member, rejected all the boyfriends she brought to see him and instead chose his own husband for her, a guy who donated Ghc 30,000 to the church.
All the supposedly straight guys who have to resort to roadside aphrodisiacs, tramadol, dragon sprays etc to keep up with their women in bed, this is for you. If you’re suffering from erectile dysfunction with a woman, the truth is that you might actually be gay. If you’re homophobic this might put you in … Read more
The month of March certainly has a lot of break up. The aftermath of February does not look well at all and I am here asking myself what people are doing wrong or too right.
Former stripper (and oh we are not being judgemental on this one) Amber Rose and her 25 years old boyfriend, 21 Savage are no more according to multiple reports.
Black woman
The principal problem with a lot of Ghanaian men and women, mostly unintelligent, when it comes to relationships is that they run with a lot of false theories, assumptions and hold on to several judgemental bronze age dogmas.
Their idea of a perfect man or woman is defined by philosophies they cannot understand or explain–if not by academic theories imported on whole sale without contextual relevance. They are deeply judgemental and wouldn’t take time to get to know someone themselves before forming robust opinions about them.
For instance, everyone who gets to know me beyond my often offensive online writings, a path I have consciously taken because of the population I deal with, soon comes to say; you are completely different to whatever I envisaged about you.
That’s the Ghanaian: they judge before they analyse or get to have a clear picture.
Imagine what would have happened if the woman I married took me to completely and solely stand for a “shallow gossip writing Chris-Vincent” who mostly gets people enraged with his brutal honest writings—there’s a much-cherished layer to a lot of people when it comes to relationships.
When most people get to know I am a “legal polymath” and I hold two Masters degrees in Law from respected UK institutions, they get shocked. Why? Because, they’ve from a distance, formed absolute beliefs about me without any room for error.
Many Ghanaian women are all about money, fame and whatever when it comes to relationships, we mostly claim. Let’s not forget that the men ride on warped notions such as a woman at a certain age has problems if she is single, I’ve heard enough of this.
Relationship
As a woman, it is infinitely important for me that my man rests secure and comfortable in my love. I know however, that most men are uncomfortable and insecure in the knowledge that they have a strong, well put-together woman with ambition.
The result, a strong woman goes in for a man who has the guts to approach her, forming the idea that he’s strong enough for her. In the end, she gets hurt because he really isn’t what he seems. Now what does a strong woman really want her man, who may not necessarily be so strong, to know?
Relationships are very important in the life of every human being, either good or bad relationship teaches some vital lessons in life. Useful relationships are very important as most of them end up with some life benefits like marriage, financial help, and the likes.
Now ex-president Kufour has hinted on four-point relationship tips which if followed could lead to peace, harmony and happiness in relationships. Below are his four-point relationship tips;
Now who is having the last laugh and a hearty one as that—it is Bella Hadid people. Just an hour after it was confirmed the little romance between Selena Gomez and The Weeknd has ended, Bella posted a picture of herself in a very swift pose with one hell of a smirk on her face.
We have just been waiting for this drama to unfold already. It has been a week since it was a speculated that The Weeknd and his girlfriend of 10 months, Selena are not really living the love story they started writing months ago.
The love spark has certainly been flamed up all over again in the home of comedian cum rapper Kevin Hart. The 38-year-old made headlines earlier this month at the back of a sex extortion scandal.
Reports had it that the obscene video had Kevin in bed with another woman. Though a source told People Eniko, Kevin’s second wife is cooperating with regards to the investigation, being cheated on obviously is having the snowball effect on her.
The month of March certainly has a lot of break up. The aftermath of February does not look well at all and I am here asking myself what people are doing wrong or too right.
