I had a principle that I have lived by all of my life. That principle is to “never date anyone younger than me.” But now I know not to say “never” as the saying goes “never say never.” I have done well, and stuck with that principle until just about three months ago. You see, I am a divorced mother of three children, and at my age I wouldn’t want to date anyone who is younger than 48 years.
I felt that dating someone younger would make me look like a desperate woman, and I know I am not. I tend to take good care of myself, and for that reason I have always attracted younger men lol. Some of these men are as young as 27 years old. And no, I have not dated anyone that young! Most of these young ones are only interested in acquiring a “sugar mummy” for their own good. Most of them are just so immature and talk rubbish. I have actually taken it upon myself to advice some of these younger men to stop chasing older women and go back to their books, or find something useful doing if they believe they have too much time on their hands.
I said to myself if I were to date, and hopefully eventually get married, then I wanted someone who is either 48 years or older, and indeed I have met several and dated a couple. Needless to say some of these men only have the age attached to them, but no brains. To think an older man will automatically be matured is a misconception on my part. Some of these older men are liars, cheats, disrespectful, and oh so arrogant. Nonetheless, I still enjoyed hanging around them for who knows what!
Well, I recently met a guy who is just too cool and too matured to be counted among men lol. After finding out his age, I became reluctant to continue with the friendship because I realized that I was five years older than him. Well, he was persistent and wouldn’t take “no” for an answer. And no he wasn’t in for the fun because he has agreed to wait until I am ready or until we get married. Yes, I said married! You see, after hanging around and getting to know him, I have realized that although younger, he is the best guy I have ever met.