Actress turned singer and full-time slay queen Yaa Jackson has detailed how long she has come with her boyfriend Manuel. Ghanaians got to see the face of the gentleman who owns the overly-exposed body of Yaa Jackson and social media users were not surprised. The gentleman is a perfect fit for Yaa Jackson. She earlier … Read more
A Nigerian lady in a romantic relationship is very worried about how her boyfriend farts anytime they are making love and what kills her is the fact that it smells like a “rotten egg”.
The lady sharing her problem with Relationship and love doctor, Joro Olumofin said;
Where are the various experienced and vibrant GC ladies who can help me figure out my puzzled situation? I was single for almost two years and then decided to try this speed dating thing that my friends were always giving it a go. My first time there was a real joke. In fact I just … Read more
Where are the various experienced and vibrant GC ladies who can help me figure out my puzzled situation? I was single for almost two years and then decided to try this speed dating thing that my friends were always giving it a go. My first time there was a real joke. In fact I just … Read more
Dear GC Readers,
I met a guy a few months ago and he seemed very nice when we met and he really chased me to get my attention. He said he wanted to marry me and have kids with me and I believed him. This guy was practically begging me to have his kids but I told him he should allow me to finish my nursing school but he still insisted he wanted us to go ahead and have children. He introduced some of his family members to me and I talked to his dad in Ghana as well as his uncle in the US and visited his aunty in Bremen.
They all seemed happy for us and he even said he wants to marry me but I told him my dad would never agree to this since I’m still studying. He then suggested that I should get pregnant first then my dad will have no option than to allow us to get married. So we planned on getting married in December and get pregnant along the lines. As you would expect I’m now pregnant and after seeing my Dr. she told me I am four weeks pregnant. I couldn’t keep the joy to myself so I quickly called him to tell him the news he had been waiting to hear but his response was not at all what I was expecting. He did not sound happy and his response to the news was cold.
Dear GC Readers,
I met a guy a few months ago and he seemed very nice when we met and he really chased me to get my attention. He said he wanted to marry me and have kids with me and I believed him. This guy was practically begging me to have his kids but I told him he should allow me to finish my nursing school but he still insisted he wanted us to go ahead and have children. He introduced some of his family members to me and I talked to his dad in Ghana as well as his uncle in the US and visited his aunty in Bremen.
They all seemed happy for us and he even said he wants to marry me but I told him my dad would never agree to this since I’m still studying. He then suggested that I should get pregnant first then my dad will have no option than to allow us to get married. So we planned on getting married in December and get pregnant along the lines. As you would expect I’m now pregnant and after seeing my Dr. she told me I am four weeks pregnant. I couldn’t keep the joy to myself so I quickly called him to tell him the news he had been waiting to hear but his response was not at all what I was expecting. He did not sound happy and his response to the news was cold.
Dear GC,
I’m really stressed and worried about my current situation. I know it’s all my fault in a way and I never should have even started dating a married man but when we met he told me he was separated.
I really believed him since he took me to the house and even introduced me to his friends. Now I’m pregnant I don’t know what to do.
I’ve been seeing my boyfriend for two years when we met at an annual work event. For a whole year he just said they were having issues and he’s leaving.
Recently I saw them together (him and his wife) and I knew he had lied. I’m so angry, hurt and betrayed. I am going to have this baby but I don’t think he should know!
He has no right to know and he doesn’t deserve to know but my brother said I’m wrong to keep this from him. Am I wrong? I think I should tell his wife what is going on because I just feel so betrayed.
Anne.
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Dear Anne,
It sounds that you just found out about the pregnancy. It’s never good to make decisions in haste or anger.
What is important now is for you to put your baby and both your welfares before any emotional needs.
You blame yourself but it takes two to make a baby which is why keeping him out of the picture is not the solution long term.
Dear GC, I need advice and need to remain anonymous because I could not bring myself to discuss this with anyone. I’m the only child which means I super close to my parents. My mum is Welsh and my father is Ghanaian. I love them both very much but without a doubt even at 21 … Read more
Dear GC,
I’ve been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for two years now and I’m now being pressured into settling down by my family. I met my girlfriend at University in the UK where we both studied.
I was really struggling at the time and I fell for her when I met her. She did a lot for me and she has made me very happy. After not finding work for more than a year after graduation, my father convinced me to return home to the family business to at least have an income and prospects.
I didn’t want to return but I needed the money for my masters, I wasn’t in a good job and wanted to be with my girlfriend. I felt like I had no choice after struggling for a year.
Even though I’m better off financially I still want to get back to her. Without discussing with me first my mother has now arranged for me to meet with her friend’s daughter. I know she means well but I already know the woman I want to be with.
The whole family think I should not put all my eggs in one basket and all my siblings and family have said I should at least meet her. I feel I’m betraying my girlfriend if I go ahead to hang around with this new girl.
Dear GC, I’ve been with my man for just four months but he has betrayed me and I confused if I should walk away from him. I met him on the 5th of October of last year. I remember the date because I met him on my birthday. Aside from not being from the … Read more
Dear GC,
I’m letting my paranoia and nerves get the best of me and don’t know the way forward. I’ve been with my boyfriend for over a year now and we are happy. In fact we are very happy and I really don’t have much reason to complain.
We spend a lot of time together and he never lets me go without the things that I need whether that be emotional or material things. My only issue is that due to the job he does as an events manager he comes into contact with many women. The thing is, this would not be a problem but he being really handsome and successful I worry he will cheat.
Woman are forever chasing him and calling him and though I don’t let such worry me I can’t help but think he is a man and is only a matter of time before he falls into temptation.
We recently went out for a meal together and bumped into a woman he did some work with to arrange her concert here in theUK. She was stunning, with everything in the right place and worst of all she flirted so much with my man and being the job he does I guess he feels he has to flirt back and tells me it’s no big deal.
I felt so insignificant and deflated that night. My paranoia is just getting worse and made the mistake of looking in his phone and she has been messaging him saying he looked good and they should meet.
Dear GC, I’ve been with my current girlfriend for just for over a year and I haven’t told my baby mother about her. My big sister is saying it aint right and I need to stop being a coward and tell her. My girlfriend says she understands but I know it upsets her. The main … Read more
Dear GC Readers.
Though I’m in my late twenties, I’ve only had three partners in my life, this includes my current Boyfriend. We started dating almost 4 months ago and he has been patient enough to wait before having sex. This makes me feel he truly loves me as he says.
I feel like I’m ready for us to make love but he refused to have STI checks. He said he has always been careful and if he were sick or had caught something he would know. I tried to explain it doesn’t work like that and eventually agreed when I said I’d do one also.
To my complete distress after my test, I was called in and told I have hepatitis B. Which I know I caught from my ex; we were together for 4 and half years and thought I could trust him.
Since finding out, I have been so depressed and now I don’t know how and if to tell my man. I love him so much and I’m so scared he’ll judge me and leave me.
His tests all came through clear and he is now wondering why I won’t make love to him. I lied by saying they lost my results and it has to be redone. We can always use condoms and I don’t have to tell him right?
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Dear Stella,
Being in a loving relationship will mean at some point you need to make selfless decisions. I can’t say this bluntly enough, you must tell your boyfriend the truth.
I can imagine this news was a big shock for you, though you should know hep B is not as intense as other more damaging and fatal STIs (Sexually Transmitted Infections).
I’m sure part of you wanting to keep this secret is because you feel if he leaves you’ll be left dealing with this situation alone.
I’m however wondering though how clearly you’ve thought your possible decision through. Bear in mind your ex boyfriend is the one you said betrayed you and lied; you’re considering doing something similar to your current man.
Dear GC Readers,
I think I may have lost the love of my life. I’m 34 and met my man just over a year ago through mutual friends. When I first met him he really wasn’t my type but I fell for him hard and fast.
When we met I knew he was a Muslim which was obvious because of his name but even though he says he doesn’t practise Islam he can only marry a Muslim. This is surprising coz he even drinks. At this point it was extremely hard to walk away as we had been dating for over six months by then.
I’m a Christian but like him I’m not devout. He really is perfect in every way and he always says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I told him I would convert as I loved him and knew I wanted to be with him for the rest of my life.
I started attending classes to learn the Quran and how to dress in the right way, I was even learning Arabic. I was so dedicated and my man was so happy and proud of me.
I really thought that once I had made all the effort to change my religion and give up so many things like church and Christmas, he would set a date but there was no mention of it and I got me very frustrated.
One Friday afternoon I suggested we go to the mosque which he agreed and was happy that I had asked. Then it all went very badly wrong.
We fought because he was late and said he had to meet with friends after. I basically waited for him to come to my place that night and blasted him about the sacrifices I had made and why he hadn’t even proposed!
Dear GC,
I’ve been with my girlfriend for almost four years now and I’m thinking of ending it all after she betrayed me. I’ve always trusted her in all ways and never expected that she could ever steal from me.
I’d been saving money to pay for my professional exams. Even though she couldn’t help me financially she has always been encouraging and supportive with me trying to improve my chances at a better job. In fact she is the one who helped me research and find the best course.
I had saved almost six thousand pounds in total and was due to enrol next month only to find that my savings account had almost been cleared! After numerous calls and investigations, video footage showed a man who was able to produce my I.d and had access almost all the money. I have not used my drivers licence in a while so didn’t even notice that it had gone missing.
My girlfriend appeared sympathetic but I noticed she seemed shifty and unsettled every time I bought it up. I started checking her phone and e-mails after she slipped up on info that I hadn’t even told her regarding the stolen money.
