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Time to Let Go the WEAVE? | Some Weaves From China to Africa Contain ‘Goat Hair’

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These days societal prestige somehow inexplicably has become tied up with the cost of your weave-on. I don’t know when or how it started, but that is the norm these days and our ladies never shy away from getting the most expensive weave they can get their hands on.

Whilst better people than me have gone on rants about how we can tie all our self worth into the type of (other people’s) hair we can put on our head, it seems now to keep up with the insatiable demands of the business, people in China have resorted to adding goat hair to the weaves they export to Africa.

The BBC made a whole report on it, which confirms that goat hair is now a crucial ingredient in the weave-on industry down there. The merchants who buy it and bring it down here to sell know, but they buy it anyway because of the market for it; and I suspect most of us down here also know, or at the very least suspect, but buy anyway.

Unsurprisingly, it also confirmed that Africa is the biggest hair market now. One shopkeeper said most of their business used to be with Europe; now, almost exclusively African buyers.

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There are so many different hair weaves on the market; Brazilian, Indian, Peruvian, Mongolian, etc. These come in various lengths and colours to suit the various complexions and needs of ladies all over the world. For some, it’s a quick fix to getting long hair. For others, it is a means of beautification. However, there … Read more

LIFESTYLE: Why I Will NEVER Pay For The Cost Of Weaves Or Wigs For My Girlfriend…

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You can call me anything you want and feel the highest pity for my girlfriend but then that is what it is…
With time, if our relationship ‘graduates’ to become husband and wife, the above entrenched principle will still stand. I will never pay for the cost of weaves or wigs for my woman. I will be extremely proud if my sisters’ boyfriends and husbands do the same.
I am not going to blame it on how expensive weaves or wigs are because that will be reducing the importance of my standing to pettiness. I can certainly afford every weave or wig I know of, except there are ones being sold at 100 thousand pounds. But I will never contribute a penny on these things for my girlfriend and she herself knows this.
I will never ask a woman to give up her taste and lust for weaves so as she can pick up the confidence she has lost in her natural hair, but then why must I contribute towards financing these ‘shallow’ habits.
I got extremely upset and could not believe the level of naivety which has come to live with certain women of today when several young women on social media platforms like Twitter failed to see the high achievements of 16 year old American double Olympics medal winner-Gabby Douglas.
Instead, black women who are reported to spend substantially more money on weaves and wigs in the world than any race lambasted her for proudly wearing her own natural hair. (Click Here If You Are Interested In Gabby’s Issue). Some black women spend more on their hair than saving for their own future.
The reason why I have never and will never contribute to any woman’s weave or wig wearing enterprise is that, I find self confidence the strongest of all human virtue. You can disagree with me but those weaves or wigs come to me as lack of self confidence in what you naturally have.
Again, if you want to wear some horse tail hair, why must I pay for that as your boyfriend or husband? Same way I will not pay for cigarettes  for anyone because of my moral standing on smoking and the health complications, I dare lower the damage these weaves and wigs do to the confidence of women or their natural hair and be a financier.

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