If you have been single and waiting for long like I have been, you will not hesitate to debunk the notion of a perfect partner, Mr Right or Miss Right.
I have spent greater number of years in my adult life waiting and searching for my Mr Right. Even though I have now come to realize that there is no such thing like Mr Right or the perfect man identical to the one I have drawn in my mind, I surely believe there is someone close to my Mr Right.
We all have our ideal partners carved in our minds…One thing I also know is that, what we look for in a man or woman (ideal partner) differs…As distinct individuals, we all have different things we look for in a relationship hence the difference in what we look in a partner.
Probably, what I am looking for in a man is too tight and that is the reason why I am still ‘looking for’ after all these years…I need to lower my standards a bit right? I thought I did though…
Let’s all get talking…What do you look for in a perfect partner? What should your Mr Right or Miss Right be like? Spell out all the expectations, appearances and whatever you seek…I will add mine via the comment box as the discussion goes on…
This depends on if your looking for just a girlfriend or a wife having a girlfriend is always a different look and personality than wife a girlfriend u may want her to be a hoe type supermodel but don’t want that look or act when you want to marry for your wife you look for mother caring quailaties and being respectful
Well look wise this will differ for every guy, Some guys like more casual looking girls and some want more OMG hotness looking girls. What this means is how you dress some guys will like it and others not so much I personally like my girl to look more casual and comfortable most of the time but on occasion wear a skirt and look more girly girl but that is just me Personality is a big one mainly because like the looks every guy has there own preference but the ones that i see always get the most attention from men are the ones that are more out going and have more energy. Its because these girls usually tend to be less judgmental and more relaxed and so make men feel more comfortable around them Guys are always trying to impress the girls they are after so if you can make them feel its not necessary with you it can go along way
This is kinda why alot of times you see tom boyish girls get more attention from guys then girly girls because guys feel alot more comfortable around them not to say that is what you should do but it gives for some good thought My type needs to be Understanding, Openness, Patience and a positive attitude good sense of humour is a clear indication of intelligence So humour is included 🙂 I don’t care much about looks a freak in the bedroom funny, nice, sweet, smart, caring, protective, good with my parents and friends, and at least a fine ass BAZOOKA
@Miyagi, Ehh, Miyagi nieee!!!
@Adjoa Nbaaso),Hahah thanks my dear
Miss Bloggerlicious, good topic and good issue to raise. I am shocked that all the GC readers are skipping this, I guess all they want is the gossip and breaking news.
As a woman, I have been going through such face too. I have always wanted a God fearing man, simple and the one who can make be laugh. I think this is not much to look for. I do not care about appearances, I care much about how the person will make me feel.
Even with these realistic and easy things I look for in a man, I am not meeting any one like that, especially when it comes to the God fearing aspect. All the guys I have met are looking for other things rather than seeking God in their life.
It is hard but then i will keep waiting and searching. So my ideal man is a simple non arrogant man, a down to earth man, God fearing with a good sense of humour
interesting piece…well i will go for a God fearing,loving, caring, intelligent and not bossy…i know it all type…no pot bellies and handsome sake of the kids but not necessary tho…
@bee! Did you say no pot bellies ? That is funny ..lol. Anyway when it comes to me, my perfect partner is a real gentleman who will treat me like a Queen and give me the attention I want and deserve all the time. I am a one man’s woman so the person should have an eye for me only. Physically, must be taller than me and not to fair . I love them chocolate dark. The darker it is, the sweeter it is gonna be
@Tracy, love that well said
@Tracy,
Dark is awesome!! I love beautiful black skin girls.
yess ohhh @ tracy….nw some young men are rocking the 3 months preg belly look alike…they always say they dont want women with bellies…they dont know we also love to see thiers trimmed
me too i m still searching and to make it worse, my mom keeps bothering with the ‘ clocking is ticking lecturers’ lol. my ideal is someone who will love me for who i am, open-minded and willing to make changes, and down to earth
@madam social,Tell your mum I will come and pay or your bride price lmao, I know the special one will come knocking on your door one day
@Miyagi, lol i know dear. its just a matter of time
@madam social,True
Nice question you have hear:
My Ideal man is; A complete man, I mean: someone who will love me the way I am, God fearing, calm, respectful, intelligent and have a lot of love. Because, a good persons words are a fountain of life, someone who do not keep records of wrongs, but the love conquers it all. A man to reciprocate your love given to him. Not one way affair. This are the paramount attribute and qualities I look for in my ideal man.
To the best of my know league, there is no such thing as mr right.accept it or not.everyone has some form of skeleton in his closet.he might be rich,but very stingy and controlling,he might be handsome but very poor financially,he might be rich and handsome but has a chronic disease.he might be very popular but is addicted to pornography or drugs.he might be very educated but a complete impotent.he might be God fearing and very faithful but a disability might be disturbing his body.
what you do is learn to compromise and adjust .Do not expect him to change you should rather change yourself.
@mavis yeboah, thats soo true.
but the all in one men are very difficult to come by. I hope i find my perfect guy.
I like your comments girl. This is what a lot of pople are overlooking in a relationship. Matthew 6:33 “seek ye first God’s kingdom and its rigtheousness and all these things will be added. You are doing well to look for God fearing man (though not easy to tell but God’s Spirit can Help). If your partner loves God, he/she will be ruled by God’s love. In times of need and hardships it’s God’s love that can help such a one to come up with good decisions. Coz if you follow money, when you lack in your marriage, th essence of marriage to you wont be there, if it’s just beauty you are looking for, when your partner is involved in an accident and the face is disfigured, what will you do? If someone fears God, he/she will become a wife or husband but if he/she doesn’t, he/she becomes a knife or harshband and beats you daily.
@TiffanyBabe, Agree on the God fearing part.Instead of them to look up to seek God, they will instead look down in between the thighs.hmmm
Gud topic Mrs Bloggs…but wats yo take guys on dating guys from outside Ghana,have u done it b4 ,well i have dated a Ghananian gal once and it was pretty gud though it all ended on a sad note,i wont be around to see yo comments guys otherwise im Yung JD Caesar on Facebook . http://www.facebook.com/Izooo