Dear GC, She CHEATED With Her Ex-Boyfriend & Now She Says It Was the Work of the Devil So I Should Forgive Her

Dear GC Readers,

We’ve been working hard as plans are set for the big wedding in February 2015 and we were all looking forward to it.

We have already made some deposit for the rings and even the night that she cheated on me with her ex, we had gone to see a wedding planner.

I am totally heartbroken and I cannot bring myself to accept that she did this or this actually happened. Most times, I wish it was a dream because I do not know how I am going to trust her again—that is if I even decide to forgive her.

I have known my partner for 5 years and we have been through a lot. At first, my parents did not accept our relationship because she is less educated compared to my level of education.

But with time, I talked them into seeing the bigger picture that education is just one of the keys to success in life, not the total solution.

I managed to find her a well paying office job through a friend of mine who is a manager at a Maryland based company and she really loves the job.

When I finished work on the 17^th of October, I picked her up from her work to see one of the 3 wedding planners we have selected to see about her charges and what she could do for us.

After our short meeting, we came to a conclusion that the wedding planner’s charges were way beyond our budget and that we would consider the others.

She politely asked that I drop her at the shopping mall as she wanted to do some window shopping with her best friend. This is something she regularly do. I jokingly even said, she better now spend our small savings.

What I didn’t know was that, her ex-boyfriend who lived in New York was in town and she was going to his hotel.

About a week later, I saw some shocking text messages on her phone and that is when she broke down into tears that she slept with the boyfriend that day and thst she has been feeling guilty ever since.

I don’t even know why she had to go to his hotel or do that to our 5 years relationship. I am so confused to the extent that a whole day goes by without me eating anything major, except to think and think.

She was my everything and I really trusted her but at this last minute, she has broken my heart.

What should I do? Should I just move on or accept that it is the work of the devil, as she says. And give the relationship another chance?

We had just 3 months let to get married and now everything is screwed up this way.

From: Ernest Ato N / USA

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